What would Christmas be without traditions? We all have them. I love and cherish ours.
When Anthony and I got married, I have to admit that he thought some of my family’s traditions were really weird. He was totally wrong. Our traditions were really cool, not really weird. But what did he know back then? He’s adapted and has come to love the traditions that make Christmas special to me. We’ve added a few of our own over the years, too.
Anthony’s family didn’t have a whole lot of traditions so it was easy to push mine on him encourage him to adopt some of mine.
I remember going to his Grandma’s and Grandpa’s Christmas party a couple of years in the beginning of our marriage but then it stopped. From there, his family has put on their own Christmas party every year.
Traditions are what make Christmas Christmas, if you ask me. It just wouldn’t feel like Christmas without certain traditions. Some of the traditions I just couldn’t live without include
- decorating the Christmas tree (I know, original, right?)
This is traditionally done at our house on the Monday after Thanksgiving as our Family Home Evening activity.
Speaking of decorating the tree, that brings me to another of my favorite traditions. This one began when K was very small. My mom and dad buy each grandkid (that consists of only MY children… my siblings have no kids, yet) an ornament or set of ornaments each year. Sometimes they all match and sometimes they are completely unique. And almost ALWAYS, they are fragile. You’ll notice on the tree below that there are no fragile ornaments amongst the clusters. {The kids decorated} We don’t put the fragile ornaments up with little ones around. Especially not B and C. They would ‘accidentally’ drop them to the floor on purpose… just to see what happens. So, this is a ‘no fragile ornaments’ year. It happens about every other year.
Another favorite tradition we have is opening one present on Christmas Eve. It’s always pajamas courtesy of my parents. Sometimes the adults get some but the kids know they’ll get new jammies every year. I grew up with that tradition. Anthony’s grandma used to make them each pajamas growing up to open on Christmas Eve. I don’t think the tradition continued for him after she was no longer able to continue.
One of Anthony’s traditions is Christmas Coke! He has to buy a 6 pack of Christmas Coke every year. He usually cracks into it when we put the tree up. This year, C was determined to have a Christmas Coke as well. He was NOT going to have the boring ol’ 2 liter of root beer poured into a cup.
Little does he know that we poured the root beer into an empty Coke bottle. We win!! He sure was proud of that Christmas ‘Coke’!
Christmas Eve brings a few other traditions at our house besides the jammies. We always read the REAL Christmas story from the Bible just before bedtime. But before that, we read a Christmas book. We try to get a new one each year but we’ve had years that it just isn’t feasible to do. Those are the years we read a book that we already own. We all agree on our favorite but I can’t reveal it yet. That’s in another post ;)
We also have to make cookies for Santa on Christmas Eve. It’s a must! We also leave carrots out for the reindeer which the girls swear they hear them munching on above them on the roof. They hear it every year! Oh, and they hear Santa’s milk cup being set down as well. It’s kind of crazy.
Another tradition we have during the holidays is baking for our neighbors. My mom and I (along with several other relatives) have been getting together to bake cookies and other goodies for the past several years…. which reminds me… Um, mom? When are we getting together? We ARE baking, right? It wouldn’t be Christmas if we didn’t! People are counting on Greek cookies! We HAVE to bake!! “Do you hear what I’m tellin’ you? The prince is marrying the sea witch… IN THE SKIES!!” {That’s H’s rendition of the classic line from The Little Mermaid. Just thought I’d throw that in there.}
Now, where was I? Oh yes, baking. We must bake. That’s all.
More traditions… my kids would love for caroling to be a family tradition. We did it once, a few years ago with a group from our ward. SO FUN! My little family on our own? Hmm, not so much. Probably would still be fun but seriously, no one wants to hear the adults in this family sing. TRUST ME! However, I hope to be remedying that very soon (details to come) ;) Anthony will still have to stink at it. Sorry, Mister… But I’ll get better!
For now, I only carol in groups. Large groups!
Other traditions that we love include going to Temple Square to see the lights, driving around to different neighborhoods to see lights, and making gingerbread houses.
Christmas parties on both sides of the family include the White Elephant gift exchange (although it seems to work better for one side than the other… just sayin’).
Nice gifts with price limits, not TRUE white elephant gifts like a used breast pump or something. EW!
Christmas day traditions are HUGE for me. My absolute favorite tradition growing up? Sending the little sister up to wake mom and dad (that way I wasn’t the one to get in trouble)………… at 4:00 a.m. That’s right! I could never ever sleep on Christmas Eve. EVER! That night always lasted way longer than normal, I swear.
Unfortunately for me, my parents would never allow us to get up at 4:00 (I just don’t get it) so my sister and I would stay up watching A Christmas Story or The Wonder Years (it was a marathon every year) until mom and dad would let us get up. Waiting until 7:30 was TORTURE!!
After seeing all that Santa had brought and opening gifts from parents, we’d get dressed and drive over to my Grandma’s house for waffles with strawberries and ice cream. I don’t know how or when that tradition started. I just know that it’s not Christmas without our waffle/strawberry/ice cream brunch. That, right there, makes Christmas for me. I could do without everything else as long as all my aunts, uncles, cousins, brother, sister, mom, dad, grandpa, kids, and husband are there to celebrate and eat waffles with me, I’d be happy as can be and my Christmas would be complete!
And now you know some of my favorite traditions. What are yours? I’d love to hear!